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Selasa, 28 Mei 2013

What Is Formal And Informal Communication?

 Answer

1. The main difference between formal and informal communication, aside from the language that is used, is the setting in which we use them. Formal communication would be used in a formal setting where communication efforts are ‘dressed’ up in order to impress. For example, in an interview to get into University, you would not use slang or colloquialisms. Informal communication is of course the opposite of formal. When using informal language, the rules of language that are applied to formal communication are not applied so people use many more colloquialisms and often slang words. This form of communication is most commonly used face to face between a friend of relative although due to advancements in communication technology, informal language is now used in texting, talking on the phone, on social networking sites or an instant message conversation.
Other examples of formal communication can also be non-verbal for example in a letter. In this circumstance and in others, it is important to address people in the correct way for example, Sir, Madam or Doctor. When beginning a letter to a person you do not know, you must start with ‘To Whom it may concern’. When in a formal situation such as at work or in an interview, some people tend to adopt a more formal tone of voice. For formal communication in written form, impeccable grammar and spelling is a must. For spoke communication, a great deal of emphasis is placed on the quality of the speaking voice and correct pronunciation.
We use informal communication throughout most of our days. You may greet your friends or relatives with a hug or kiss rather than a formal handshake. You will become much more relaxed around these people and not feel the need to make an effort with your voice. You will be less careful with your language choices and more inclined to use colloquialisms and perhaps even slang, if you are around your friends.

2. Formal communication is when people use the rules of language in a conversation or in writing format. In a conversation, it would be more likely for you to use formal communication when in an interview or writing a letter to a business or maybe work.

Informal communication is when people do not use the rules of language and may use slang in conversation. It would be more likely for you to use informal communication when you see a friend on the streets and you have a chat. It would also be informal like chatting on MSN or Facebook.

Public Speaking: The Basics

Presenting a good speech requires practice and knowledge. There are a few basics to get started.

Approaching the Speaking Situation: Audience, Occasion, Purpose

Communication, both spoken and written, is always addressed to an audience, a set of listeners or readers you are intending to convey information to or have some effect upon. Public speaking differs from written communication in that the audience is present, gathered for some occasion. That occasion has norms and expectations that a speaker must recognize. Finally, a public speaker has some purpose, something they are trying to accomplish or set in motion. Good public speaking always accounts for these three components.
Audience. Speakers communicate differently to different audiences. To take a simple example, people tell their grandmothers about their new “significant other” in a different way than they tell their best friend. Similarly, people speak about trees differently with their high school biology teacher than they do with their younger siblings; and speakers often need to make arguments about public policy differently to Republicans than to Democrats. Two main questions guide audience adaptation in a speaking situation: Who are they? What qualities about them are relevant?
Who are they? Distinguishing general from specific audiences is useful. A general audience is everyone who will hear the speech or read the paper. A specific audience, on the other hand, is that subset of the general audience who the speaker particularly wants to reach, or to reach in a different way than the rest of the group. In an audience with varying degrees of knowledge on a subject, for instance, a speaker might want to pitch their comments primarily to non-experts (while at the same time not saying anything that a specialist would find objectionable). In the classroom, students may be speaking to the entire group but making a special effort to address the professor's expectations.
What qualities about them are relevant? Audiences vary in values, knowledge, style of communication, and intellectual capacity—among other qualities. Depending on the topic and purpose, effectiveness could be influenced by whether the audience is young or old, rich or poor, female or male, highly religious or less believing, college graduates or high school dropouts, ethnic minorities or majorities. In addition, audiences carry different expectations to a speaking occasion: some want to be there, others do not; some want to be entertained, others are looking to be informed; some are open to being persuaded while others are unlikely to change their minds anytime soon; some expect a highly polished presentation with sophisticated visual aids while others are looking for less formal comments. All of these expectations help shape a speaking situation.
Occasion. Unlike much written communication, a public speaking situation occurs at a specific time and place. With regard to time, the speech can be affected by events that have very recently occurred (e.g. the morning's news may be fresh in your audience's mind); by the time of day (8:00 A.M. lectures are different than 10:00 A.M. lectures); and by the fact that it comes after or before other speeches. Place matters too--different-sized rooms make a difference for visual aides and intimacy.
There is also a reason that the speech is happening, the occasion for which the audience has gathered. Are you speaking at a wedding or a funeral? An academic lecture series or a public meeting of concerned citizens? A mandatory assignment for freshman communication students? Each of these occasions has different norms for speaking, calling for speakers to operate in different modes--from formal to informal, from light to heavy, humorous to serious, conversational to highly practiced.
Purpose. Speakers hope to accomplish general and specific purposes when they communicate. For most speaking in college and beyond, there are two general purposes: to inform or to persuade. The line between informing and persuading is not absolute, and many speeches will do some of both. Nonetheless, they are useful guides for speakers.
When a speaker seeks to inform, they want the audience to leave the speech knowing more than they knew beforehand. Speakers may want to explain an idea or process, share new information, or show how to do something.
When a speaker aims to persuade an audience, they want them to adopt a new position or belief, to change their minds, or to be moved to action. Persuasion calls a speaker to advocate one position among others that are possible and be willing to defend it against challenges.
In addition to a general purpose and speaker typically has a range of more specific goals for their speech. They may want to get a few laughs, to build upon a classmate's speech, to reach a selected group of listeners, to show themselves to be competent to potential employers, or to create controversy. A successful speech requires a clear sense of general and specific purpose to guide how selection and presentation of ideas and words.

Structuring the Speech

Organizing speeches serves two important functions. First, organization helps improve clarity of thought in a systematic way. Second, organization increases the likelihood that the speech will be effective. Audiences are unlikely to understand disorganized speeches and even less likely to think that disorganized speakers are reliable or credible. Speeches are organized into three main parts: introduction, body, and conclusion.
The introduction of the speech establishes the first, crucial contact between the speaker and the audience. For most classroom speeches, the introduction should last less than a minute. The introduction needs to accomplish three things:
Focus your audience's attention. Speakers must have an “attention grabber” to interest the audience—a joke, astonishing fact, or anecdote. (Rhetorical questions like “Haven’t you ever wondered how…” are notoriously ineffective.) The introduction is the place where the main claim or idea should be stated very clearly to give the audience a sense of the purpose of the speech. Speakers need to orient the audience and make connections between what they know or are already interested in and the speech topic.
Establish goodwill and credibility. Many people believe the most important part of persuasion was ethos, or the character the speaker exhibited to the audience. The audience needs to see the speaker as someone to listen to attentively and sympathetically. Ethos is generated by both delivery style and content of the speech. Making eye contact with the audience and displaying confidence in voice and body are two important ways to establish ethos. In addition, if you express ideas that are original and intelligent, you will show “intellectual character.” Audiences pay attention to habits of thought that are interesting and worth listening to.
Give a preview. Mentioning the main points to be covered in the body prepares the audience to listen for them. Repetition is an important aspect of public speaking, for listening is an imperfect art, and audience members nearly always tune out in parts--sometimes to think about previous parts of the speech, sometimes for other reasons. The preview should end with a transition, a brief phrase or a pause to signal to the audience that the speech is moving out of the introduction and into the body.
The body follows and is itself structured by a mode of organization, a logical or culturally specific pattern of thinking about ideas, events, objects, and processes. Having a mode of organization means grouping similar material together and linking the component parts together with transitions. Good transitions show the relation between parts of a speech. They display the logic of the speech. Common transition phrases include: in addition to, furthermore, even more, next, after that, then, as a result, beyond that, in contrast, however, and on the other hand. One special type of transition is called the internal summary, a brief restatement of the main point being completed.
In the body, the fewer the main points the better. For short classroom speeches, under 10 minutes, speeches should not have more than three main points. For longer speeches, more than five main points ensures that audiences will have trouble following and remembering the speech. In the speech, main points should be clearly stated and "signposted," marked off as distinct and important to the audience. Transitions often serve to signpost new points, as do pauses before an important idea. Additionally, speakers might number main points—first, second, third or first, next, finally. Always make it easy for the audience to recognize and follow key ideas.
There are several common modes of organizing the information in the body of your speech:
Temporal organization groups information according to when it happened or will happen. Types of temporal patterns include chronological (in the sequence it occurred) and reverse chronological (from ending back to start). Inquiry order is one special mode of temporal organization useful in presenting some kinds of research: here you organize the body in accord with the unfolding processes of thinking and gathering data, taking the audience from the initial curiosity and questions to final results.
Cause-effect is a related mode of organization, showing how one event brings about another. Cause-effect, like other temporal modes, may be used for past, present, or future events and processes. Cause-effect can also be reversed, from effect back to cause.
Spatial patterns group and organize your speech based on physical arrangement of its parts. If a speech is describing a place, a physical object, or a process of movement--downtown Mercer, a plant cell, or the Battle of Shiloh--spatial patterns can be useful.
Topical designs are appropriate when the subject matter has clear categories of division. Government in the United States, for instance, falls into federal, state, and local categories; or into executive, legislative, and judicial branches; into elected and appointed officials. Categories like these can help divide the subject matter to organize the main points.
Compare/contrast takes two or more entities and draws attention to their differences and/or similarities. Sometimes speakers explain a difficult subject by comparing it with an easier, more accessible one--to explain nuclear fusion with the stages of high school romance, for instance. The use of analogies often assists in audience understanding.

Following a transition from the body of the speech, the conclusion follows. The conclusion should be somewhat shorter than the introduction and accomplishes two purposes: summarize main ideas and give the speech a sense of closure and completion. Good conclusions might refer back to the introduction, offer an analogy or metaphor that captures the main idea, or leave the audience with a question or a challenge of some type. Brief quotations can also make effective conclusions (just as they can make effective openings for introductions).

Argument: Claims, Reasons, Evidence

Critical thinking means being able to make good arguments. Arguments are claims backed by reasons that are supported by evidence. Argumentation is a social process of two or more people making arguments, responding to one another--not simply restating the same claims and reasons--and modifying or defending their positions accordingly.
Claims are statements about what is true or good or about what should be done or believed. Claims are potentially arguable. "A liberal arts education prepares students best" is a claim, while "I didn't like the book" is not. The rest of the world can't really dispute whether I liked the book or not, but they can argue about the benefits of liberal arts. "I thought the movie was cool" is not an arguable statement, but "the movie was Paul Newman's best" is, for people can disagree and offer support for their different opinions.
Reasons are statements of support for claims, making those claims something more than mere assertions. Reasons are statements in an argument that pass two tests:
Reasons are answers to the hypothetical challenge to your claim:
· “Why do you say that?”
· “What reason can you give me to believe that?” If a claim about liberal arts education is so challenged, a response with a reason could be: “It teaches students to think independently.”
Reasons can be linked to claims with the word because:
· Liberal arts is best [claim] because it teaches students independent thinking [reason];
· That was Newman's best [claim] because it presented the most difficult role [reason];
· Global warming is real [claim] because the most reputable science points in that direction [reason].
· Everyone should stop wearing seat belts [claim] because it would save lives [reason].
If reasons do not make sense in the hypothetical challenge or the 'because' tests, there is probably something wrong with the logic of the argument. Passing those tests, however, does not ensure that arguments are sound and compelling.
Evidence serves as support for the reasons offered and helps compel audiences to accept claims. Evidence comes in different sorts, and it tends to vary from one academic field or subject of argument to another. Scientific arguments about global warming require different kinds of evidence than mealtime arguments about Paul Newman's movies. Evidence answers challenges to the reasons given, and it comes in four main types:
Specific instances include examples, case studies, and narratives. Each can be an effective mode of building support for a reason or claim. In a public speech, they offer audiences a way to see an idea illustrated in a particular case. To be effective, specific instances need to be representative of the broader trend or idea they are supporting. With an example as evidence, someone arguing against seat belt use might say "Last year my cousin crashed her car off a bridge and would have drowned if she were wearing her seatbelt" as evidence (the answer to "Why do you believe that?" question.) An opponent might challenge whether this example was a representative one: surely there are many more car crashes that do not end in water, so this one instance is not a fair gauge of the relative safety of not wearing seat belts.
Statistics include raw numbers (117 million visitors to the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame,), averages ('women's bowling teams drink on average two pitchers less then men's'), statistical probabilities ('crossing North Main during rush hour increases your chances of death 20%'), and statistical trends ('applications have risen 40% over the past three years'). In public speeches, statistics have the advantage of seeming objective, authoritative, and factual, but critical audiences will want to know about the sources and methods for determining your statistical evidence.
Testimony, or appeals to authority, come in two main types, eyewitness and expert. Eyewitness or first-hand testimonies are reports from people who directly experience some phenomenon. If a speaker is arguing about toxic waste dumps, a quotation from someone living next to a dump would fall into this category. First-hand testimony can help give the audience a sense of being there. Experts may also rely on direct experience, but their testimony is also backed by more formal knowledge, methods, and training. Supplementing the neighbor's account with testimony from an environmental scientist, who specializes in toxic waste sites, is an appeal to expertise. When using testimony in arguments, you should always make sure the authority you are appealing to is in fact qualified to speak on the topic being discussed.

Oral Discourse and Extemporaneous Delivery

The spoken word differs from the written. Audiences for public speeches do not have the benefit of being able to go back and re-read sentences. They cannot look at a page and see section headings or new paragraph indentations. Public audiences have a more limited capacity to comprehend complicated ideas and to take in long sentences and difficult or dense language. Public speakers have to compensate for these limits by using the principles of repetition of content, clarity of structure, and simplicity of language.
Repetition. Repetition is a fundamental part of most good public speeches. An old public speaking adage goes something like: “tell ‘em what you’re going to tell ‘em, tell ‘em, and then tell ‘em what you told ‘em.” By the end of a speech, an audience should have absolutely no question about what the central idea or main claim is. To make sure that happens, state that idea clearly in the introduction of your speech, tie the information and arguments of the body to it in explicit ways, and restate the idea again in your conclusion. Audiences are more likely to miss or forget important information if you do not repeat and restate it.
Clarity. Clarity of structure means that ideas are logically grouped into categories the audience can easily understand. In addition, just as paragraph indents and underlining alert readers to new or important ideas, transitions and signposts help listeners recognize new 'paragraphs' and key points of the speech. Brief pauses can signal to listeners that the speaker is about to say something important or is moving onto the next main point. Phrases like "most important," "I am claiming that," "the crucial point is this," call your listeners' attention to what follows them and act as verbal underlining.
Simplicity. Simplicity in language is crucial to conveying information effectively. Oral discourse differs from written in its use of language. Oral discourse is often best when it uses the first person, “I” and “we.” Such language gives the speech a sense of immediacy and helps the speaker to connect with the audience. In addition, good speeches will often use less formal language--contractions, sentence fragments, selected slang expressions. Finally, oral language needs to be less dense and jargon-laden then some kinds of written language, especially academic language. When written papers are read out loud, they almost never make effective speeches.
While there are several effective modes of delivery, extemporaneous speaking is the most adaptable and time efficient. Learning it is also an excellent way of sharpening critical thinking. Extemporaneous speeches are developed through outlining ideas, not writing them out word-for-word. They are practiced ahead of time, rehearsed and re-rehearsed (extemporaneous speeches are not impromptu), using a keyword outline of single words and short, 3-5 word phrases. The speech is not memorized but instead is concentrating on the main ideas; each time a speaker practices and delivers the speech, wording comes out a little differently. Extemporaneous delivery gives the speech freshness, for it doesn't sound canned and over-rehearsed. Additionally, this flexible form of delivery allows a speaker to make adjustments to their speech in response to non-verbal signals from the audience--signs of confusion, displeasure, curiosity, or excitement.
Extemporaneous delivery allows speakers to make eye contact with the audience—one of the best ways to connect with them and keep them involved in the speech. Eye contact is an important way to establish a speaker's credibility and make a speech compelling; when a speaker relies too much on notes, they are potentially losing their audience and running the risk of looking unprepared.
Verbal and nonverbal communication are important in public speaking, helping to make a speech clear and compelling to an audience. Developing good vocal delivery means focusing first and foremost on being heard clearly: a speaker must speak loudly enough to be heard by everyone, articulate words sharply so they can be understood, and speak slowly enough so that the audience can easily take in the ideas. In addition, avoid monotone delivery and be engaged enough with the speech to communicate interest. Effective bodily delivery begins with this simple maxim: do not distract the audience with extraneous movement. Nervous pacing, standing cross-armed or hands-in-pockets for long stretches, turning from the audience and talking into a visual aid, gestures unrelated to the verbal message--all of these distract from the content of the speech and should be avoided.

An attempt at short story writing

The following might be a very arbit non-choherent prose...use your discretion before you proceed. Comments or critiques are welcome.

"Where was I?" thought Madan as he got up with a jolt from a weird dream. The first week of training had been very hectic and as a result he had been sleeping heavily the past two days, trying to catch up on lost sleep and ended up being engulfed in the myriad world of dreams.Madan knew one thing, dreams don't predict any thing, they are a medium to acheive things that you can't or haven't in real life, a medium to vent out frustrations,yet these were the very reasons why he hated these dreams, because they reminded him of things that he was yet to do something about.

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Life felt so boring, the enthusiasm that he used to effuse when he landed up in this place seemed to have slowly faded away. "I am visiting a new place and it will definitely be a great experince..new friends, new sights, new house, new everything...hell, I am in the place where are dreams are given shape and realised..it got to be good." So he had envisioned and so it was, atleast in the first week since he had joined the company.

Dinner at a three star hotel was a rare happenstance and when he got to know that they were to have dinner at "The windmill meadows" for whole of the week as a part of the orientation and acclimatisation program, he knew things couldn't have been better. The orientation program was a mix of fun and business and Madan despised the latter. The dinners were definitely fun for him, atleast the food served at the meadows was good. Though a teetotaller, he didn't mind the company of people who had good time with a drink, infact they sometimes were his source of amusement.

Ah, those were the days, gone are those days he thought as he recalled the 'sessions' when his friends would reveal amazing lesser known truths about themselves which made them instant legends. Hostel life was something he was definitely going to miss big time; the cosy room, the endless hours of surfing the net, debating for hours about some worthless topic, the ultra flexible routine that arouse out of the freedoom to do anything at any time and ofcourse the unlimited entertainment though countless movies that he had had ready access to.
Madan hadn't taken any intitiative to participate in extra-curricular activities at college, he was more of a bookworm, gobbling up books on science fiction and abstract stuff. Now, he hardly had time for any hobbies, work and sleep consumed most of his time..Ah those days, he thought again..

"Hey", said someone sitting next to him, snapping him back down to ground reality, "the food's up for grabs, let's go yaar". Thank heavens, that lecture was outright trash, he thought. The lecture was another one in the series of lectures that was meant to inculcate the company's vision and mission to the employees and drive home the point on why their work culture was superior. He headed out to a fast queuing up line for the variegated buffet spread out in a vast ballroom. A couple of girls caught his eye as he helped himself with servings of pulaov. He made a mental note to go talk to them later on.

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The orientation week flew by quickly and Madan was yet to get acquainted with many of his coworkers during his first week of training. The company was paying him a decent buck and his work which concerned developing innovative software solutions to network optimisation problems, was an upcoming and demanding field. His undergraduate education according to him hadn't served any useful purpose and he knew he had a lot to catchup on during the ongoing training of three months. It hadn't been easy since the actual training had begun. Flooded with assignments to be completed and tests to be held every week, he could only think of his carefree hostel life. He knew he would take time before he would start accepting the current situtation for better or worse, but the past memories still haunted him. He wasn't sure if he had made the right choice, maybe he thought, maybe if I had...

Job had never been his first option, he had set his sights high at getting into the IIMs, but he had been careless during his preparation for its entrance exam. Too much of idle time and lack of focus didn't do him any good.Yahoo messenger is the worst thing that happened to mankind, he thought as he painfully recollected the many hours he had spent chatting with complete strangers. What irked him most was his attitude towards work which could be summed up to "Well begun is Half done".

Whenever he remincised on the past memories of his undergrad life, Madan would enter a trance like state and let the mind and its flow of thoughts take its own course. During these times, he was just an observer, he wasn't in the least affected by what was going on.He had been a character in his past life,now he wasn't, now he was a mere spectator,he had enjoyed his hostel life, now he had those memories, he had made mistakes,now he could only repent on his mistakes if he chose to.

His eyelids were dropping down, he let out a yawn, life, he thought, life is like that. Another night full of weird dreams, another day at the job tomorrow, this monotonous existence isn't enough. He was going to be one among the many people who couldn't comprehend any joy in working all day and working to a fixed schedule, what fun was there in that? I need to do something imaginative to spruce up this inspid life he thought and he very well knew he wasn't going to do that. The frustration just stays, may be I have to live with it, he thought, yeah life sucks.

Short Story

“Yes Madam, Your name please” asked the beautiful girl behind the ticket checking counter. “Ms Anamika” said I, curtly. I wondered how long she will look beautiful enough to continue in this job.

“Yours?” I though she will ask my spouse. Surprisingly she did not. Rita still looked as beautiful as she was when we got married 11 years back.

The girl looked at both of us and she was trying to hide a smile. I felt I could read her thoughts. I know these people. She was thinking how we managed it. She was wondering how we had sex and whether we did not have the desire to have kids. She must have also wondered what we would do in old age.

I was used to these. They are always there wherever I go out with her. Rita smiled at me. We collected our boarding passes. After walking a few steps, I turned back to see her. She was whispering something to her colleagues. I was visibly upset and was going to bitch about her, when Rita spoke.

“Gita, my daughter. Long time since I saw her. I guess you are seeing her for the first time. Harish and his relatives have warned her against speaking with me since I left home. He does not want her to become our type.”

I looked again at the girl. She was issuing the next pass. I somehow felt her eyes were wet.

Short Story

Kindness

A child cried alone in a basket of fruits. A passer by looked around, seeing none around in this locality of Old Delhi. He called around and hurriedly left the place before someone could see him. Another car passed by, a couple around 40 stopped by, saw the child, waited around and called 101. It was past midnight. Not many lights were on in the houses nearby. The couple picked up the child and cuddled it. It felt as if it was their own child. The hugged it and hurriedly left the place with the child in the car. Probably they did not want the police to take it from them. It was a girl and they did not have one even in 15 years of their marriage. A cute one. One window on the 3rd floor of a wretched house, Neelam kept crying in her old house at GB Road till she finally fell asleep. The most peaceful sleep she ever had. Her daughter wouldn't have to live that life ever.

TATA CARA AUDIENSI KEPEJABAT SESUAI TINGKATAN

Jumat, 24 Mei 2013

Kawin Campur antar Negara

Berdasarkan Undang-undang Pokok-pokok Agraria/UUPA (UU No. 5 Tahun 1960), Warga Negara Asing (WNA) tidak boleh memiliki hak milik atas tanah. WNA yang memperoleh hak milik atas tanah karena warisan wajib melepaskan hak atas tanahnya itu dalam jangka waktu satu tahun.
Rupanya, ketentuan serupa juga berlaku bagi Warga Negara Indonesia (WNI) yang mempunyai hak milik atas tanah kemudian kehilangan kewarganegaraannya atau menjadi WNA. Jika jangka waktu itu telah dilampaui dan hak milik atas tanahnya tidak dilepaskan, maka hak tersebut terhapus karena hukum dan tanahnya menjadi milik negara.
Selain itu, kondisi di atas juga dapat terjadi dalam perkawinan campuran, yaitu perkawinan antara dua orang berbeda kewarganegaraan, dan salah satunya adalah WNI. Menurut UU Perkawinan, yaitu UU No. 1 Tahun 1974, dalam perkawinan akan terjadi percampuran harta kekayaan antara suami dan istri ke dalam harta bersama. Semua harta benda yang diperoleh baik oleh suami maupun istri akan masuk ke dalam harta bersama.
Dalam perkawinan campuran, hak milik atas tanah dari seorang WNI akan turut menjadi milik suami/istri-nya yang WNA karena masuk ke dalam harta bersama. Dengan turut dimilikinya hak atas tanah tersebut oleh WNA dalam harta bersama, maka hak atas tanah itu wajib dilepaskan dalam jangka waktu satu tahun.
Namun, jika seorang WNI dalam perkawinan campuran tidak ingin kehilangan hak atas tanahnya, maka suami-istri dalam perkawinan itu harus memisahkan hak atas tanahnya itu dari harta bersama. Salah satu cara memisahkannya adalah dengan membuat perjanjian perkawinan, yaitu perjanjian yang mengatur pemisahan harta kekayaan dalam perkawinan dan dibuat sebelum atau pada saat perkawinan dilangsungkan.
Dengan adanya perjanjian perkawinan, maka dapat dihindari terjadinya percampuran harta bersama sehingga suami dan istri menjadi pemilik dari harta yang diperolehnya masing-masing.
Namun, bagi WNI yang sudah terlanjur melakukan perkawinan campuran, namun belum membuat perjanjian perkawinan, maka suami-istri dalam perkawinan itu sudah tidak punya kesempatan lagi membuat perjanjian perkawinan. Hal ini karena perjanjian perkawinan harus dibuat sebelum atau pada saat perkawinan dilangsungkan.
Untuk mengantisipasi hal tersebut, maka sebaiknya sebelum berakhirnya jangka waktu 1 tahun sejak perkawinan tanah yang dimiliki WNI itu dialihkan kepada pihak lain, misalnya dijual atau atau dihibahkan. Hal ini untuk menghindari hak atas tanah tersebut hapus dan jatuh ke tangan negara tanpa memperoleh ganti rugi.

Kamis, 23 Mei 2013

Pengumuman Hasil UN SMA 24 Mei, SMP 1 Juni 2013

Nasional - Pemerintah akan mengumumkan hasil Ujian Nasional (UN) tingkat SMA dan SMP sederajat sesuai jadwal semula.
Hasil UN SMA akan diumumkan pada hari Jumat, tanggal 24 Mei 2013. Sementara hasil kelulusan UN SMP sederajat pada hari Sabtu, 1 Juni 2013.
Mendikbud Mohammad Nuh beberapa waktu lalu menyatakan optimis pengumuman hasil kelulusan UN yang dikeluarkan oleh Pusat Penilaian Pendidikan (Puspendik) Kemendikbud tidak tertunda.
Karena imbas dari molornya hal tersebut bisa menyebabkan kekacauan. “Rentetan masuk ke Perguruan Tinggi Negeri (PTN) juga kacau. Orang yang akan melanjutkan ke luar negeri juga akan terkena imbasnya,”katanya.
Memang sejumlah kalangan menguatirkan pengumuman UN tahun ini berimbas dari tertundanya pelaksanaan Un. Seperti diberitakan sebelumnya, penyelenggaraan UN SMA sederajat di 11 provinsi tertunda akibat masalah teknis pengepakan.

Rabu, 22 Mei 2013

Pendidikan dan Sumber Daya Manusia



Pendidikan dan Sumber Daya Manusia

(Education in Human Developing Index)




Oleh : Rusdin, S. Pd

(Guru Bhs. Inggris pada Madrasah Aliyah Negeri Kandai II Dompu)





Pendidikan dan SDM
Pendidikan merupakan terpenting untuk meningkatkan kemampuan Sumber Daya Manusia (Human Development Index) di suatu daerah. Pendidikan juga merupakan suatu proses pembudayaan nilai-nilai, yang kemudian nilai-nilai tersebut dapat diterapkan dalam bentuk kerja nyata di lapangan. Baiknya pendidikan maka baik pula Sumber Daya Manusia di suatu daerah, tapi pendidikan bukan satu-satunya pendukung masih ada juga yang lainya seperti meleknya kemampuan okonomi dan pelayanan kesehatan yang memadai. Pertumbuhan ekonomi tidak hanya digantungkan pada faktor modal semata, karena jika suatu saat modal menjadi langka maka yang terjadi adalah merosotnya pertumbuhan ekonomi. Sebaliknya,. jika pertumbuhan ekonomi dibekali dan didukung oleh SDM yang berkualitas, maka pertumbuhan ekonomi dapat semakin membaik. Dalam ketenagakerjaan cukup tampak perbedaan antara orang yang berketerampilan atau mempunyai SDM berkualitas dan yang mempunyai SDM rendah. Orang yang mempunyai SDM tinggi umumnya memiliki jabatan yang lebih tinggi dan mampu mengolah dan menata lembaga yang di pimpinnya, karena mereka dianggap mampu mengemban tugas dan tanggung jawab yang besar dibandingkan orang yang mempunyai SDM rendah. Kemajuan suatu organisasi atau lembaga sangat ditentukan oleh orang-orang yang ada di dalamya. SDM berkualitaslah yang dimiliki oleh orang-orang yang berkependidikan cukup karena dalam proses pendidikan, seseorang dididik dan dibekali berbagai macam ilmu dan pengetahuan yang nantinya akan diterapkan saat terjun langsung di masyarakat.

Pendidikan Kita
Pada tanggal 2 mei kemarin kita telah merayakan dengan seksama acara upacara pelaksanaan untuk memperingati hari pendidikan nasional yang telah di cetus oleh bapak pendidikan kita Ki Hajar Dewantara. Berdasarkan Keputusan Presiden RI No. 305/1959, Ki Hajar Dewantara dinyatakan Bapak Pendidikan Nasional Indonesia dan hari kelahirannya di jadikan Hari Pendidikan Nasional. Berbagai acara yang bersifat edukatif di helat sebelum pelaksanaan hari jadi pendidikan diataranya lomba gerak jalan, cerdas cermat, olah raga antar pelajar. Terlepas dari pelaksanaan perhelatan hari pendidikan diatas penulis ingin menyampaikan berbagai peristiwa yang terjadi sebelum dan sesudah hari pendidikan nasional diantaranya pelaksanaan pendidikan tahun ini di awali dengan carut marutnya Ujian Nasional mulai dari tertundanya jadwal pelaksanaan sampai pada tertukarnya soal, juga yang terjadi di daerah kita yang menuai pro dan kontra pelaksanaan kegiatan yang di helat oleh dinas pendidikan kabupaten Dompu lomba dangdut yang di peragakan oleh guru-guru dan lomba yang bersifat edukatif lainnya, sebagian pendapat yang kontra seperti yang di keluarkan oleh media cetak harian Inti Rakyat dan Koran Pagi merisaukan jadwal pelaksanaan tersebut karena pelaksaan lomba tersebut masih dalam suasana Ujian Nasional tingkat Sekolah Menengah bahkan Bupati Dompu menyampikan pada saat membuka acara malam pelaksanaan 2 mei di depan kantor Diknas Kab. Dompu mengatakan “ada juga sms yang masuk pada saya yang mengeluhkan jadwal pelaksaan tersebut”. Kendatipun demikian bupati mengatakan pelaksanaan itu sah-sah saja yang penting untuk meningkatkan dan memajukan pendidikan di Kabupaten Dompu dan untuk kedepan agar jadwal pelaksanaannya bisa di perbaiki lagi. Bagi yang pro mendukung perhelatan berbagai lomba tersebut karena lomba yang telah di peragakan itu merupakan hal yang sah saja dan bersifat edukitif karena dalam motto yang yang dimiliki oleh dina pendidikan Kab. Dompu sekarang ini yaitu 3 M : 1. Guru harus bisa Mengajar, 2. Guru harus bisa Mendidik dan 3. Guru harus bisa Menghibur.
Masalah lain bagi dunia pendidikan kita yaitu belum lagi tersendatnya dana operasional sekolah baik dari pusat maupun di daerah, banyak guru-guru honor yang gajinya telat dibayar bahkan sebagian sekolah saat ini mulai dari awal tahun 2013 hingga akhir bulan mei tahun 2013 belum juga terima gaji sama sakali. Setelah di berlakukannya UU wajib belajar 9 tahun secara nasional pemerintah kab. Dompu menggratiskan biaya pendidikan bagi peserta didik, sehingga sekolah tidak berhak memungut biaya pada wali murid karena sumber dana untuk operasional sekolah di bebankan kepada pemerintah.


Generasi dan Kurikulum Baru (Generation and new curriculum)
Daerah yang terkategori maju adalah daerah yang berhasil membangun sumber daya manusianya melalui pendidikan. Pendidikan adalah sunbangan yang terbesar dalam memajukan suatu daerah. Sebaliknya, bidang pendidikan adalah pintu keluar untuk menggapai mimpi kemajuan. Karenanya tantangan terbesar pemerintah hari ini adalah bagaimana  mengelola pendidikan dalam konsepsi yang matang yang di dukungan oleh dana besar, juga kemampuan pada tingkat operasionalisasi yang baik dan handal. Gonta-ganti kurikulum dalam rentang waktu tidak terlalu lama mengindikasikan bahwa pendidikan kita dalam masalah. Ketika ada masalah muncul, apakah sudah ada resep tepat untuk mengurai benang-kusutnya. Selain itu, apakah Sumber Daya Manusia (SDM) yang direkrut adalah dari komunitas yang memang memilih menjadi guru karena panggilan jiwa. Masalahnya di lapangan banyak pilihan yang mengedepan aspek taktis semata.   
Timbulnya permasalahan pendidikan yang selalu kompleks di dunia pendidikan saat ini karena letak geografis daerah di Indoesia cukup jauh dan kondisi alam yang tidak sama belum lagi meratanya penyediaan sarana dan prasarana yang memadai. Di hari iadi Dompu yang ke-198 pemerintah propinsi telah menggelontorkan dana bantuan Tambora menyapa dunia yang merupakan program Gubernur untuk memajukan pendidikan di Kab. Dompu sangatlah besar 49 M untuk bidang sarana dan prasarana dan untuk biaya operasional lainnya. Dan yang perlu di bangun yaitu sistim konektifitas atara pihak sekolah dan wali murid yang belum terjalin, selama ini hanya masih dalam tataran teori belum maksimal dalam pelaksanaannya. Padahal hubungan antara wali murid sebagai cikal bakalnya untuk mengetahui perkembangan peserta didik sangatlah penting. Masalah lain terkait masalah gaji sertifikasi para guru di sebagian daerah bahkan di Kabupaten Dompu masih ada miliaran rupiah dana sertifikasi yang tersendat di pusat. Dari hal-hal tersebut diatas akan menghambat perkembangan pendidikan di suatu daerah yang mengganggu konsetrasi perkembangan pendidikan.
Bagaimana dengan hasil kelulusan tahun ini, tepat pada tanggal 24 Mei 2013 pemerintah pusat yaitu Kementerian Pendidikan bahwa kelulusan tahun ini lebih rendah dari tahun sebelumnya yaitu 99, 79 % untuk tahun ajaran 2011/2012 untuk tahun ajaran 2012/2013 hasil kelulusan 99, 74 % dan rerata nilai UN lebih renda disbanding tahun kemarin, bagaimana hasil kelulusan di Kab. Dompu pada tahun ini Dompu masuk di urutan ke-2 dari 10 Kota/Kabupaten se-NTB dibawah Lombok Timur.

Kurikulum 2013
Kehadiran kurikulim 2013 yang akan diterapkan Juli depan merupakan indikasi bahwa pendidikan kita dalam masalah yang terus di up to date. Dengan cepatnya mengganti kurikulum akan membuat masyarakat kita kebingungan karena kurikulum 2013 masih dalam tahap konsep yang membutuhkan biaya besar, kemarin tertanggal 20 mei Kementerian Agama yang menaungi seluruh sekolah Agama seluruh Indonesia sudah mulai menyusun anggaran bersama anggota Komisi VIII DPR-RI sekitar Rp 300 Miliar walaupun pelaksanaan kurikulum 2013 akan di laksanakan pada tahun 2014 tapi tahap awal di tahun ini Kementerian agama akan melatih guru, perumusan pedoman penyelenggaraan dan penyusunan buku teks. Ada yang membangun pemikiran bahwa kurikulum 2013 akan gagal jika serentak dilaksanakan karena di pulau jawa pasti berbedah dengan NTB, NTT dan daerah lain di seluruh Indonesia, karena berbeda sangat amat mengenai sarana pendukung dalam penerapan kurikulum 2013, sebaliknya kurikulum 2013 merupakan konsep cerdas baru yang telah dirancang oleh para pakar pendidikan yang wajib di terapkan pada awal tahun ajaran baru mendatang pada bulan Juli depan. Tidakkah kita mengambil contoh di Negara-neraga tetangga seperti Singapura dan Malaysia perkembangan pendidikan yang jauh lebih maju dari kita, atau Negara yang paling maju pendidikan di dunia saat ini yaitu Negara Norwegia menurut survey mengalahkan Negara adi daya Amerika Serikat. Perkembangan pendidikan di sana di atas rata-rata di negera manapun di dunia saat ini.